Breakups are painful, but sometimes there is nothing we can do about them.
If you have tried your best to salvage your relationship, but it still doesn’t seem to be working, there is no need holding on.
However, even after breaking up, you might still want to make your ex-miss you and wish that you were there with them. Moreover, surprisingly, they might miss you and come chasing and begging you to be back with them.
Here’s how to do it:
1. Revamp your wardrobe
Might sound like a cliché but believe you me it does work. Get new and classy clothes that bring out your best looks. Ensure they well fit such that they highlight your curves or muscles. The new look will catch the attention of your ex, and when they see everyone admiring you, he or she will come chasing after you.
2. Unfriend them on social media
If you are still friends with your ex on social media, you are making a huge mistake. If you want them to miss you, block them on all platforms so that they have no means to stalk you. They will miss you and get your number from friends to get in touch with you.
3. Forget their birthday
Alternatively, pretend to forget it at least. Not seeing your sweet birthday message, the attention, gifts, and not feeling your love on their special day will break their heart. They will remember all the cute things you did to them on their special day and miss you like crazy.
4. Get a life
Your ex would be pleased to see you depressed after a breakup. However, you must prove to them that life goes on and that you are even happier without them. How? Get busy with your life, hang out with friends and have as much fun as possible. Seeing you happy hurts and it will make them start missing you.
If you get a new partner and you like them, don’t hesitate to date. Remember your happiness comes first and whether your ex-feels jealous about it should not be your problem. Your ex will not be happy for you. They will miss being in the already occupied position and regret losing you.
6. Turn down invitations
When your ex-starts missing you, they will ask you out or request you visit them. However tempting it may be, don’t accept it. Is the goal to make them miss you remember? Resist the invitation until they insist several times when you can then approve. However, if you don’t want anything to do with them, keep turning down their invites.